It’s just the way it is, when things start going good they go bad. It never fails. Why on earth I ever expect it to stay decent and normal is beyond me! Need to get my head checked.
And I’m so sick of returning to this topic, this cycle, it’s monotonous. But, it’s necessary to revisit this every time it occurs. I need to see it here, in black and white, and realize just how often it happens and what exactly the details are surrounding it. You out there experiencing similar isuues or contemplating marital situations need to know and see our reality….
It’s not easy to fix relationships, it doesn’t always work, and both parties are not necessarily committed one hundred percent of the time. Some things can’t be fixed.
Things go far far down when we are disagreeing on one topic and it gets blown out of proportion. Like blowing smoke to distract from a real conversation. Words, absolutes like ‘ never ‘ and ‘ always ‘ begin to be used, ‘ divorce ‘ and ‘ I know you _____’ thrown around. Not good. Immature. And not progressive at all, only regressive.
I’m tired, I’m insulted, I’m surprised, and I’m going to sleep. What a shame…